Hi! I’m Pamela….

I am so glad you are here. I am the voice and heart behind the Unapologetically Me Blog. I created this blog to capture my healing journey as I unpacked limiting beliefs that left me feeling broken and alone. I believed that if I captured this process in writing, it would allow me to show up as the best version of myself, unapologetically. 

Let me tell you a little about myself. I am a mama to three daughters who make me extremely proud every single day. They are some of the kindest humans I know, which is all a mama can ask for. I am happily married to my partner in this life and my very best friend. Together we show up in this world as a pair of ninjas, never knowing what each day will look like under our roof!

My story? Well it all began the day I became a young, single mama at the age of nineteen to my first daughter. It was in that moment that I made the pact to both she and myself that, though I may not have known exactly what I was doing, I would always give it my ALL until I figured it out. 

And that I did. 

Fast forward nineteen years later and we have welcomed two more strong, independent daughters to our family. My poor husband. 

It was with the birth of my third daughter that I felt a loss of control in my life. It was in that moment that I realized I had lost my sense of self. For so long I had been a mother, a wife, a daughter, an employee, a leader, a friend and a sister, but I had lost who I was at the center of my soul. 

Well that, my friends, is exactly when-by accident-my personal growth journey began.  

In short amount of time, my life turned completely around. It was then that I started my blog to capture this journey as I learned and healed through many years worth of layers of the things I had allowed to become my identity. I took back control of both my physical and mental health and, for once in my adult life, made myself a priority. 

This time around, my blog might sound a little different. I am looking at it with a different purpose. I am ready to move forward from healing, and start unearthing the narratives that have been told to me of who others believe I should be. I’m not sure yet where this journey will take me, but invite you to follow along!

Are you ready? I sure am! Let’s start unpacking.

Pamela